Hebrews 12:2 “fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”
In life you meet a lot of people don’t you? And during this journey, you may get close to certain people only to realize that they will hurt you someday. Fellowship is very important and you need to have good friends, but don’t lose the attachment you have in Jesus.
If you are secure in Christ Jesus, then your relationships will be secure, God is in control of your life.
Have a secure relationship with Him, fix your eyes on Him and start dealing with people in love and be genuine but don’t lose out on God and start running behind someone who wouldn’t be able offer you the love which only God can give you.